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little mystic 🏡

Kaitlyn Graña is a trance medium, diviner, occultist, and expert exorcist in service to the Queer Diaspora.

it’s me, mom 🌹

I’m Kaitlyn Graña, the Mother of Mystics.

As a trance medium, Espiritista, and “cultural Catholic,” I have been servicing the public since 2016. More than a Mentor, I am the Mother of Mystics. I serve at the altars of many Great Mother Spirits, and as such, offer clients spiritual support in their image.

Queer Folks, Marginalized Folks, Spiritually Sensitive Folks, those who have been harmed by cults or Christianity, deserve the warmth, tenderness, and truth that the archetype of Mother offers to them through working with me.

I am a 4th generation practitioner of Espiritismo Cruzado, through my paternal lineage. I have been reading tarot for just shy of two decades - first for myself and friends casually, then professionally in 2016. I specializing in teach Espiritismo, mysticism, and other occult subjects, trance mediumship, and exorcisms.

I was born and raised in the San Gabriel Valley: unceded Chumash Land to a Cuban father and Mexican-Italian-American mother, and have lived and worked from East Los Angeles for over a decade. I am ethnically Spanish (Celtic, Basque, Arab, Guanche) by way of the Canaries, Cuba, and Mexico, Italian (Romani from Calabria most recently, but many places in Southern Italy), Ashkenazi Jewish (my Jewish great-great-grandfather migrated from Germany to Mexico in the 1800s), Indigenous (Taino, Raramuri), and West African by way of Cuba.

When I am not working, you can find me hanging out with my partner and our two kiddos, going on hikes at our local trails, spending as much time at the beach and in the sun as possible, playing cards (Hearts & Black Jack!), and loving on my friends and community.

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my story 📖

I was baptized in the Catholic Church as a newborn babe, and grew up living a “double life” - one where I attended Catholic School from K-8 and went to Mass on Sundays, and on the other hand, practiced our family’s creole tradition of Espiritismo Cruzado.

While it was strange growing up with a secret that had to be hidden from my classmates and teachers, I was blessed (and privileged) with parents who believed in questioning the Church, who acknowledged the presence of the spirit world, and who encouraged me to be my most fantastical self.

I have been a mystic for my entire life, casting spells, communicating with spirits and communing with nature are some of my earliest childhood memories. One of my mother’s favorite stories is of me at age 4, running back in the house after playing in my Nana’s garden, shouting to my mom “Mama! Mama! Tata Dios! Afuera!” In my limited four year old vernacular, I told my mama that Christ had appeared to me under my Nana’s apricot tree.

Throughout my adolescence, I experienced psychic and spiritual phenomena. During the witch resurgence of the 90s, I began reading and experimenting with the “socially acceptable” versions of mysticism via New Age Spirituality, and purchased my first tarot deck at the Bodhi Tree on Melrose (RIP!) and began playing with divination.

As a survivor of CSA, my teen years and early twenties were a blur of depression, drugs, and alcohol abuse. I spent those formative years drowning out the pain of my experiences—and the voices of my good spirits—in bottles of whiskey and bad decisions. I had disconnected myself from my spiritual roots, and I would openly tell people that I would be dead by 25.

Somewhere around 22, I had a profound experience. In the midst of a multi-day-bender, I found myself at a party in a suite at the historic Biltmore Hotel in downtown Los Angeles. I was approached by a young girl, who was asking me about myself, asking me why I was so sad. When a friend at the party asked me who I was talking to, I realized that I was speaking with a ghost. Her spirit followed me for days, and our time together reached its climax while I was sitting on a rooftop with a former lover, lost, hopeless, and she invited me to follow her off the edge.

It was in that moment that I realized I wanted to LIVE.

The road to recovery was strange—sometimes it felt like a slow struggle, and sometimes time felt like fleeting. By 24, I was married, a new mother, working hard in my career in apparel, and sober. With all these blessings, I still felt like I was drowning. I remember standing on the corner of 7th and Broadway, breaking down in tears, when I heard a voice whisper “Go to The Mother.” I went to my dad (light and progress to his soul), and he reminded me that Maria Caridad (my paternal family’s patron spirit) never left me, that Espiritismo never left me, no matter how hard I tried to forget who I was, who I am. I built my first personal boveda, connected to my first mentor, Tania Martinez, and never looked back.

Everyday since has been a miracle.

Listening to the guidance of my Good Spirits, I began reading tarot again, writing and sharing about mysticism again, and was surprised to see how well received this was by my friends and community. My work as a tarot reader organically evolved into mediumship, and eventually teaching and mentorship. In 2018, I left my last conventional job and took on spiritual work full time.

Now, I am so blessed to be a steward to the beautiful Mother of Mystics community. Blessed to have supported over a thousand people all across the globe through my services, teachings, and offerings. It’s funny when I reflect on my childhood…when other people wanted to be doctors and lawyers, I wanted to be a nun. I was so inspired by the deep lore of femme mystics in convents, studying spirituality and mysticism, serving their communities, caring for one another. Though I am certainly not a nun now (heehee), I do feel that I have fulfilled little me’s dreams of a life devoted to developing conscious, loving relationships The Spirits and to The Living.

my vision 👁️

I believe that spirituality and magic cannot be separated from community care, abolition, indigenous sovereignty, and land back.

I believe that this Good Earth and her abundance is meant to be experienced by all living beings - and that it is our responsibility to care for this planet and her inhabitants in return.

I believe that while the systems of man that are in place strive to make our lives as difficult (and dangerous) as possible, the Good Spirits who support us are eager to show us the loopholes and secret paths to experiencing joy, companionship, pleasure, and abundance every day - if only we give them permission to do so.

I believe that relationships with the Good Spirits are meant to be reciprocal. That the efforts we pour into our connection to our Spirits - through conversation, care, and ceremony - reflect blessings back to us.

I believe that it is our responsibility as Espiritista to have our needs met by Creation, and that in having or needs met, we are able to pour into our families and communities.

I believe that we have a responsibility to our Planet, to our Lineage, to One Another, and to Ourselves to identify and heal unhealthy personal and ancestral patterns - and that we are capable of doing so.

I believe that the Good Spirits who surround us desire for us to know that we are never alone in our lifetimes - through the struggles and the successes, they always have our back.